I prepared my son for this night for a very long time. We?ve always been close, expecially since the kid?s puta mother left 6 years ago. From the time he started with puberty I prepared him for this night when his daddy would make him a man, just the way my daddy did it and his daddy before that. It?s a coming of age ritual here in Arkansas. It?s what men do and it?s a father?s responsibility. I prepared him, but can you really prepare anyone for that pain ? the feeling of a red hot poker being jammed into that tight sweet hole? Probably not. But I tried and he took it lika a man.